Madhur Vyavhaar : Winsome Behaviour
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Sweet language spoken for the benefit of others gives them happiness, peace & love; also, it gets back happiness, peace & love for oneself. Such language nourishes ones good qualities and provides mind with pure & positive energy. It is a blessing from God and it is beneficial for us & everybody around us. It protects & beautifies The Truth.
Never speak any word which hurts & harms anybody. Harsh & hurting language cannot hide the truth, and the partial truth present in the harshly spoken statement also gets deformed because it is not appreciated by anybody. The one who has foul tongue has an evil heart.Some scholar told Pandit Madanmohan Malviya: "You can abuse me with hundred harsh words but I'll not get annoyed."The reply that Malviyaji gave reflects his greatness. He said: "I'll test your anger later, before that my tongue will become dirty."Neither should you make your tongue dirty nor should you accept such language from others. If the bad language of others influences your mind, it means that you are accepting their foul language.
Stealing somebody's property, money etc is not as big a crime as hurting other's feelings. Do not break anybody's heart because God Himself lives in his/her heart. If suggestions are given with an attitude of love & respect for the other, then there can never be any conflict in the family.